1. Completing the Date
It may not indicate that you're the apple of his eye, but it does indicate that you're not a total disaster . Most people are courteous enough to do the absolute minimum on a date: finish
whatever activity you're doing together and devote sufficient time out of respect for the other person. But some situations are such utter disasters, things must be cut short .
whatever activity you're doing together and devote sufficient time out of respect for the other person. But some situations are such utter disasters, things must be cut short .
2. One on One
If a guy is into you, and comfortable, He won't want to "share" you. A common tactic to combat a boring date is calling in "reinforcement" friends to "dilute" you. If he invites everyone else around you into your little party, He might just be looking for a more interesting outlet.
3. Extending the Date
Suggesting something (other than going back to someone's place) after dinner like taking a walk, grabbing a drink, going for dessert, catching a movie, etc., indicates He's asking for an encore.
4. Suggesting Another Date
A common time to suggest another date is at the end of the date, though some guys just say this to be friendly. But it can't be bad if the guy is enthusiastic enough to suggest a second date. He just has to make good on his word.
5. Friendly Follow-Up Right After You Say Good-bye
After a date, a guy should text the girl telling her he had a great time, out of sheer giddiness. If He's not interested after the date, he'll most definitely head straight home and begin his process of fading out of this girl's life (following up is not part of that process).
6. Striking While the Iron's Hot
He'll appear to be flaky or uninterested if he wants too long. If he enjoyed the date, he'll contact you within a few days. This doesn't necessarily mean he's asking you out again just yet. He's just keeping the conversation going. If he's not interested, He won't ever contact you again. Regardless of how great you thought things went, if he doesn't contact you again he's clearly not interested.
7. Non-Cliché Dates/Spontaneity
Take notice when he asks you to do random little things: run errands, go to the park. It's that next step when he's getting to know you and showing you I want you around whenever, wherever. Spending this "informal" time with you indicates he's interested. Remember, guys sometimes act interested just to get laid, and there are guys who feel guilty cutting a date short when it's not going well. "Trying to be nice" actually sends the wrong signals if a guy is not interested
- MarieClaire
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